Why is there no civility anymore?

All these political ads just let me know that the right is the most hypocritical group of folks ever. The republican county commissioners walked out of a vote on the budget which FUNDS the police but their commercials attack the left for wanting to “defund” the police. The county judge nominee from the right would not appear on the local npr station unless she could control the questions. What a coward. There are less debates and more outside money. One side lies and the other doesn’t call them out. This country is not moving where we should be due to uncivilized behaviors.