Where do upper 20s/lower 30s people go out these days?

Looking to make a change in my life, get out more, have fun, make more friends, find a girlfriend, etc. Tired of sitting at home alone all the time.

I have no idea where people around my age actually go to hang out in Houston. Either daytime or nightlife. Any recommendations?

Not really into clubs with music so loud you can’t talk to the person next to you. Also not really a dancer. Not a huge drinker usually, but won’t say no to getting a buzz going when with friends. I think I’m more interested in talking with people and have a worthwhile conversation.

I’ve been feeling pretty melancholic recently, which is kind of what spurred on this desire for a change. I really want to make some genuine connections with people. I’ve got a work friend that is willing to take some of the journey with me, but I think I need more than just that.