Simply just where and how?

Just how. How are these guys and girls finding GF/BF? Husbands and wives. It’s LITERALLY IMPOSSIBLE. #1: You can’t cold approach girls in public because they’ll brush you off, think you’re a weirdo or make a scene. Also they are ALWAYS with others. #2: Bars are a bad idea to find a future wife at. #3: A BAD idea to find someone at your job…. Don’t s**t where you eat. #4: Everyone knows every dating app doesn’t work for guys. For 90% of us. Tinder is the perfect example. So what are you suppose to even do then??? Apps, cold approaching, at work and bars .