Short Feminine Haircut Recs

I need some reccomendations on haircutters who can cut a woman's hair short and not make it look like she is the intense opposite of straight.

I keep getting these horrible haircuts and they are not cheap either. This is the third time since the lockdown that I am seriously considering shaving my hair all off again because that will actually look less butch than the $100 haircut I was given last night. It won't look great, but at least it won't look like I put a lot of effort into looking horrible like this does.

When I go, I take a picture with me of the haircut I have had that I loved most, and that was short, but also flirty and cute, and that earned compliments from actual straight men who found me attractive partly because of it. That's the message I am wanting to send to the world again and it's baffling to me that this keeps being such an obstacle.

Please, please good recs who can imitate a picture, I am inner loop and don't mind paying if they will finally get it right! This should not be so impossible. The recs I got last year on Nextdoor gave two of these awful cuts ($65 & $70 on those also) so I am hoping redditors are more capable.