I want to go out tonight

Hello all, I (37f) have been in a slump lately, and thought maybe a night out with my husband (37m) might help. I put the ages for reference. I want something more exciting than just dinner, but we are too old/boring for clubbing, he won't do karaoke, I don't like super loud as I have sensitive ears.

Maybe I'm asking for a unicorn, but I want a night out where I can dress up and maybe feel a little like myself.

We are in the southwest side of town, but can go to other parts of town too.