Humble/atascosita Dentists

Anyone know of any private practice dentists in the area that are actually decent people and would be understanding?

I have serious anxiety when it comes to dentists. My last few dentist visits were for an orthodontist who would shame me in public (brushing my teeth openly if I didn’t do it to their standards and then doing it for me if they got frustrated). Thus the serious anxiety and lack of visits in the past six years.

Now I seriously need to see one and was hoping there are recommendations. Preferably any that also perform oral surgery. I’ll be cross referencing with my insurance so no worries on that.