Gynecologist recommendations for well-woman exam

The question is geared specifically toward well-woman exams because most of the posts/comments I’ve seen on this sub have been surrounding OBGYN recommendations for pregnancies.

I’ve had some unpleasant experiences with gynecologists having poor bedside manner and being generally dismissive about pain levels during a well-woman exam.

Looking for someone that can help put me at ease during my visit, is gentle, and takes pain seriously!