Bars/Lounges?

Anyone know any chill bars or lounges to meet people? I'm a very lonely guy. 28yrs old, a bit socially awkward, and I take care of my mother. I'm looking to meet new people in a chill environment. Maybe a bar or lounge where I can find a lonely female like myself. Lol. I bet I sound crazy right now.. I'm tired. Sorry. Please help though. Thanks.