How do you connect with the opposite gender in this town?

As a guy, I struggle particularly with dating apps, and after a month of going nowhere with them, I uninstalled them since it felt pointless.

While I don’t want to sound boastful, I thought I would have an easier time finding someone. I’m in my late twenties, I make more than six figures from a job that has amazing benefits, which would make my retirement quite comfortable. I have a good amount of savings, graduated from a reputable school, drive a nice car, have a supportive family, and am super fit—I just ran a 10-miler last weekend. I don't even drink or do drugs. Just a really normal person.

Of course, some might say, "Oh well, he probably has a bad personality." The truth is, I’m quite self-conscious of how my actions affect others. I constantly think about helping those around me; for example, I switch to the right lane when I see a fast driver on the left to let them pass. With my decent income, I constantly donate to charity. I would say I’m generous, friendly, and definitely not crazy—just your average guy.

You might also think, "Oh, he’s probably ugly then." While I can’t judge myself objectively, I rate myself as average. I look relatively young, am very fit from running, and consider myself a fair-looking asian. Back in high school, I had repeated moments where I caught multiple girls that sat in the front staring at me all throughout the semester in class, but I was too naive to really act on it.

Despite all of this, I find myself struggling with loneliness, particularly when it comes to the opposite gender. Most of my friends are in serious relationships or already married.

So, how do you find a potential partner in this town to become the love of your life?