Looking for neurodivergent mom friends

I'm a 32yo mom of an almost 4yo autistic son and I have AuDHD myself. I work full time and I'm engaged to a Latino man. Would love to find someone that maybe shares this specific situation…. Someone that can relate to why it takes me a whole business week to mentally prepare for any get-togethers with my in-laws lol. Bonus points if you are also nerdy and love HP, pokemon and cats ( I have 3 🙃). Let's talk s**t abour our annoying spouses and infodump about our special interests 😊

Edit: I couldn't find a subreddit for this and I don't feel like there's a need to create one because there's so many fb groups already… I'm just looking for something more real. Less fb-fake if u know what I mean.